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Mission Statement

Inspiring people to Show Up, Take Charge, Live Free, and Be the One.

Be the One’s mission is to help people of all races, genders, and sexual orientations, show up, have real conversations, liberate themselves, and create the life they’ve wanted. Be the One inspires people to show up, express what matters most, and embody their truth with love, courage, and integrity.

Media

For more information, to arrange a meeting with the author, or for a next steps discussion, please contact Dr. Tony Ortega’s literary agent, Helen Lewis, at info@theliterallyagency.co.uk.

What to do when you hate your friend's boyfriend

August 30, 2018
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An Epidemic of Singledom in the Over 45

August 6, 2018
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Gay men over 45 far more likely to be single - and these are the reasons why

July 26, 2018
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#IsHeHereYet : Being The Person You Want To Be With Sizzle Reel

The power of the generation gap friendship

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8 Signs You're Attracted to Narcissists

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Embracing Queer Children

June 22, 2018
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Calum McSwiggan

#MissionLove Podcast Episode 3

London Book Fair Seminar

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Polari Literary Salon

April 9, 2018
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Polari Literary Salon

December 27, 2017
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Study reveals different masturbation habits of gay and straight people

The results of a global survey into masturbation have been released for ‘Masturbation May’
May 17, 2018
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Connection is Genderless and Mentally Ill People Can Love

April 21, 2018
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My date slipped away to have sex with another guy: Why was I even there?

EXCLUSIVE: Dr Tony Ortega’s new book #IsHeHereYet may question your attitudes towards dating and being in a relationship
April 17, 2018
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Single and unhappy? Be the person you want to be with, says psychologist

EXCLUSIVE: Psychologist Tony Ortega recounts one of several bad dates that led him to re-think his search for love
April 13, 2018
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Podcasts

Some of my previous work with my good friend and Life Coach, John Davisi in our joint venture, The Rawest Brunch:

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Episode 7 - Me to My X-Men with Michael Reyes
Episode 5 - The Walk of No Shame with Jeremy Long
Episode 3 - To Cum Or Not To Cum: Healing Our Sex with Amy Jindra
Episode 1 - Introduction - Am I Here Yet
50 Shades of Shade
Blanche Deveraux Is Dead
IsHeHereYet??
Fantasy Role-Play
Stereotypes
Promiscuity
Episode 8 - Did He Cum Yet? - with Damon L Jacobs
Episode 6 - Is He Trans Yet? - With Gaines Parker
Episode 4 - Love at First Swipe? with Bill Brooks
Episode 2 - Bad Boys In Retrograde with Sabrina Webb
Gurl, bye
Aging Gayfully
Holiday Survival Guide
Body Image
Daddy Issues

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About Me

I wanted to share with you a little bit about me. My passion for helping others began at a very early age. I always knew that no matter what I did, I wanted to help others. Once I knew that such a profession existed, I knew this was my goal in life.

In August of 1992, I began my first job as a mental health professional in a residential women’s drug and alcohol rehabilitation center. Since then, I have worked in a many settings and with so many clients from all walks of life. I have worked for inpatient, outpatient, residential, managed care, and private practices, which included working with patients with substance abuse issues, mood disorders, severe and persistent mental illnesses, traumas, and LGBTQ issues.

I recently wrote and published #IsHeHereYet : Being The Person You Want To Be With, where I take you on a raw, humorous, and thought-provoking journey of the quest for love in a modern society where being single is a perceived epidemic. I continue to write and will be announcing and launching books in the future.

If you have any questions, suggestions, topics you want covered, or partnership desires, please reach out to me below.

For more information, to arrange a meeting with the author, or for a next steps discussion, please contact Dr. Tony Ortega’s literary agent, Helen Lewis, at info@theliterallyagency.co.uk.

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For more information, to arrange a meeting with the author, or for a next steps discussion, please contact Dr. Tony Ortega’s literary agent, Helen Lewis, at info@theliterallyagency.co.uk.